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Hearing loss is more common than you think. You may notice a family member asking \u201cWhat are you saying?\u201d more and more often, having the television on standby, or avoiding conversations in company. It can be frustrating \u2013 for you, but certainly for the other person as well. Still, it\u2019s a tricky subject to broach. How do you help someone with hearing loss without coming across as patronizing or pedantic? In this blog we give you practical tips, insights and ways to show your commitment without falling into the role of \u2018hearing police\u2019. <\/p>\n\n

Hearing loss is not black and white<\/h2>\n\n

Let\u2019s start with this: hearing loss comes in many forms and degrees. Not everyone with hearing loss is completely deaf, and not everyone experiences the same symptoms. Some people can still hear low tones just fine, but miss the high frequencies. Others can hear speech, but have difficulty in noisy environments. <\/p>\n\n

In addition, hearing loss often creeps into life slowly. Many people get used to the \u201cnew normal\u201d and don\u2019t even notice how much they are missing. Or they don\u2019t want to admit it, out of shame, fear of old age or simply because they think it\u2019s not that bad. This makes it extra difficult for a loved one to start the conversation. <\/p>\n\n

Recognize the signs, but be patient<\/h2>\n\n

You may have already picked up some signals: conversations that need to be repeated, avoidance of group conversations, or frustration with phone calls. These signals are important, but they do not yet mean that someone is ready to accept help. <\/p>\n\n

Don\u2019t try to come up with solutions right away, but observe with patience. Give space. People are more likely to feel attacked if you get right to the point: \u201cYou just have bad hearing, you need a hearing aid.\u201d<\/em> Such an approach usually backfires. Hearing loss doesn\u2019t just affect the ear \u2013 it also affects self-image. <\/p>\n\n

Make it personal, not medical<\/h2>\n\n

Instead of starting the conversation with numbers or diagnoses, it\u2019s better to talk from yourself. For example:<\/p>\n\n